I ain’t been on this jawn in a 𝓂𝒾𝓃𝓊𝓉𝑒𝑒𝑒𝑒 ! I hope everyone’s 2018 is going swell so far. I just gotta say sum real quick, got a couple things on my mind. Knowing yo mf WORTH!!!! You HEAR ME ! KNOW YASELF KNOW YA WORTH. It’s real out here. The amount of people who wanna drain you of your energy , use you for ＡＮＹＴＨＩＮＧ Literally anything you have is sad. It kinda sucks to be writing this, because yall know I don’t TALK ABOUT ANYTHINGGG outside of my realm. So at any rate, I was thinking about how the past people were reappearing in my life . I’m like there has to be some reason . Sometimes you have to step out of the situation so you can see a different perspective than the inside. That’s what I had to do. I was thinking, reflecting and I discovered a few things. ONE, that people will always treat you based on how you allowed them to in the past, so that’s notable. SECOND, that people will keep in touch with you solely for the own benefit. Now I am not talking about genuine folk , those who call you and bring food when you are sick , give you rides when your car is broke down, send you a card to get your spirits up. I ain’t talking about that. Essentially, because if you are doing any of the above, then you must really care. I am speaking about those whose ways are funny acting , they disappear and then 𝔅𝔒𝔒𝔐 they are back in your life. They only hit you up when it’s convenient for them . What kind of a friend blocks you out there life ( literally) and then just decides to let you in their life when they feel its comfortable. I’m being vaig here but bear with me . IF it sounds fishy🐟 , SEEMS fishy , feels fishy , IF YOUR GUT IS TELLING YOU SOMETHING AIN’T RIGHT. IT AIN’T RIGHT. If all leads point to a fish, ISSA FISH. (Substitute rat for fish, for a more relative analogy). Sometimes you have to cut off ties, that you 𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽𝓉 were refreshing to you (KEYWORD : 𝓉𝒽𝑜𝓊𝑔𝒽𝓉) . Notably, as you get older you start to see the fugazi in things. If they don’t appreciate you, then they ain’t knowing your worth . Like how you gon’ call me a 𝓖𝓞𝓓𝓓𝓔𝓢𝓢 ♕ and then treat me like a peasant . GOODBYEE! KNOW YA WORTH FELLAS AND LADIES !!
ＩＴ ＣＯＵＬＤ ＢＥ ＷＯＲＳＥ
A statement I hate oh so very much. You tell someone , I broke my leg and they say “Well, it could be worse”. What this does is , disregards the fact that the current situation is αℓяєα∂у BAD. Regardless of that, you underrate someone’s feelings by doing that. STOP! Show some type of respect ! Nobody going through a hard time, wants to hear ” it could be worse” . They’ll stop talking to your ahh. That’s what they’ll do. Find other ways to console people other then telling them that their situation isn’t serious.
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Well first let me start off by saying Happy 2018!! Hope yall had a safe lit New years. Now as we ring in the new year, there are new levels to reach, new endeavors to go after. In the midst of it all, we may need to take care of ourselves. Meaning, cut off some dead weight, exercise , eat healthier, take a social media break, change your number, GO TO THE DOCTOR FOR GOODNESS SAKE. Because Wealth is Health. I say this as I need to be sitting a doctors appointment too. It is sad, because aside of the alarming rate of non insurance coverage we as a people neglect our health . Either we work too much, we end up forgetting, some are just scared to go. ( And the term IGNORANCE IS BLISS for the winnnnnnn). Well anyway, AT SOME POINT you must take care of you . You will never be able to ACCOMPLISH MUCH ELSE if you feel like a sack of potatoes (shrugs).
At any rate, shoot for yall goals. Don’t say you gon do em either. JUST DO EM.
Stay Level and Be Safe
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I been off this for a minute. But I didn’t forget.
I been working, recording,editing, writing. Just a lot of behind the scenes stuff.
What to do when people don’t appreciate your craft? It can be quite agitating . However, there is nothing left to do but to keep working. There are so many behind the scene things that go into every craft. The things that NO ONE SEES, are the things that can potentially break you if you let the frustration do so.
I can definitely relate to that. I type this to say to you, if you needed a confirmation whether or not to keep going , KEEP TF GOING. When you have your defining moment and you reach that peak .
Aight so boom! You set some goals, they become your dreams . You start actually doing that junk to get to where you want to be and PEOPLE START LOOKING AT YOU CRAZY
THEN YOU’RE PROBABLY ON THE RIGHT TRACK, Alot of people are probably wondering , YO WHAT IS THIS GIRL TRYNA DO . The answer? EVERYTHING. Besides talking about myself, if people are asking or questioning your goals , your dreams then I’d have to agree you are doing the right thing. You are going the right way. Your dreams should be so big that not only do outsiders , or EVEN insiders question you but you should also question yourself.
Am I doing the right thing?
Am I really going to be able to accomplish this?
Am I going to fail accomplishing this?
ALLL are logical questions to ask, You may even ask others for validation or confirmation. (GUILTY) However, IF YOU CAN BELIEVE YOU CAN DO SO , THEN YOU CAN DO SO.
We got this, and even if close friends and colleagues doubt you …. What is that? EVEN MORE THE REASON TO PROVE THESE HITTAS WRONG….
The day I had man. Sheesh. I AM FEELING TF UNCOMFORTABLE. 🗣 . I know some of yall can relate. Like you’re outgrowing your current stage in life. I truly feel like I am man. I’M SURE WE ALLLLL CAN RELATE TO wanting to level up. Lord bless my growth cuz Man oh Man its rough.
Its like you trecking up hill and you either going at a slow pace or you keep tripping over rocks . Even more, the climate keeps changing and you keep having to adjust to the weather. I am being very figurative literal with this . I hope yall get what I am saying.
They say trust the process , sometimes it’s hard to trust the process. I pray the lord bless yall growth for real.
On another note, Talking to people from high school always gives me a new age since of nostalgia. Check on yall people yall. We all living, growing, and going through things. REMEMBER THAT. 💭 This blog is all over the place but sometimes you gotta let it out. Ya Know.
I think we all say that a little more than we should. Nowadays, I have been coming across a lot of content that speaks on waiting, being patient.
Honestly, that is one attribute I can work on. A lot of us are waiting for the next moment and not enjoying the season you’re in. Sometimes the season you’re in ISN’T enjoyable. What do you do then?
ENJOY THE LESSONS IN YOUR SEASON.
Sometimes we encounter seasons in life that uncomfortable AS HELLLLLLL. You just want to get out the moment soooooo bad. We have to take notes when we are in seasons like this though.
I read this quote today : ” Stop having breakdowns because a mutual made it and you still waiting. You are in competition with NOBODY but yourself. Your success will come when it’s supposed to. Everyone’s journey is different . GRIND AT YOUR OWN PACE.”
When I tell youuuu, VOLUMES . IT SPOKE VOLUMES. Sometimes it gets hard waiting, and other times its hard to wait and some if not most timesits because you are not enjoying your current season. I pray for all of you reading this ready for your patience to pay off. I hope it comes soon. I pray we can enjoy our seasons now , so we can reap benefits later.
I know I said persistence pays, but patience does too. Its like , right behind it .
SAY THIS ALOUD : MY TIME IS COMING. Now repeat it three times over . Now write a list of goals and get to them jawns.